Circles of Support for Children
A Guide
It takes a village.
A child’s growth and upbringing can be shared by many.
In this blog post, we're diving into the incredible power of circles of support for children. We all know that raising a child takes a village, and that's exactly what circles of support provide. These circles, made up of family, friends, educators, and community members, create a nurturing environment where children can thrive. From offering emotional support to providing guidance and mentorship, circles of support play a crucial role in shaping a child's growth and development. So, let's explore the magic of these circles and how they contribute to the well-being of our little ones!
“All kids need is a little help, a little hope, and someone who believes in them.”
Circles of support and secure relationships are important aspects during all stages of childhood. Parents/caregivers act as the first source of support throughout one's childhood, however, when children make the transition into adolescence their support system may grow to include teachers, peers, schoolmates, community members and extended family. It is crucial that we help create a strong and sufficient circle of support for our children at a young age to help them later in life. Circles of support can help children understand their perception of how supportive their loved ones are, how well supports can help children grow into better people, and how well they can help children navigate life's highs and lows.
How can the type of support from extended family and friends differ from that provided by parents?
Parents/caregivers nurture, while the village inspires.
The support offered by extended family and friends can differ from that of parents/primary caregivers in a few ways. While parents/caregivers provide the primary care and nurturing, extended family and friends can offer additional perspectives, experiences, and guidance. They can provide a wider range of role models and influences, exposing children to different ideas and values. Extended family and friends can also provide emotional support and a sense of belonging outside of the immediate family unit. Their involvement can create a sense of community and connection that enriches a child's upbringing.
What role do teachers and educators play in supporting children?
Teachers, partners in lifelong learning.
Teachers play a crucial role in supporting children's development and upbringing. They provide education, guidance, and mentorship, helping children acquire knowledge, skills, and values. Teachers create a safe and inclusive learning environment, fostering social and emotional growth. They collaborate with parents and caregivers, offering insights and feedback to support each child's unique needs. Through their dedication and passion, teachers become an integral part of a child's village, shaping their future and helping them reach their full potential.
What are the different layers to a Circle of Support?
A Circle of Support can include up to four different layers. It’s proposed that to have a well-formed Circle of Support, it needs to be comprised of individuals from each layer to form a supportive community around us.
THE CIRCLE OF INTIMACY
The ones we cherish deeply are the ones we spend time with, trust, and share our emotions, intimate relationships, and private information with. They hold a special place in our hearts, and we would truly miss them if they weren't by our side.
THE CIRCLE OF FRIENDSHIP
These are the folks we enjoy spending social time with, whether they’re friends or relatives. We may not see them too often, but when we do, we share interests and catch up on news.
THE CIRCLE OF PARTICIPATION
These are the groups or individuals we engage with regularly, such as clubs, church groups, neighbourhood associations, sports teams, colleagues, or college friends.
THE CIRCLE OF EXCHANGE
These are the individuals we compensate for services, like staff, doctors, tutors, social workers, therapists, and hair stylists. Snow (1998)
The Benefits of a Strong Circle of Support
A strong support circle provides us with people we trust, share emotions with, and rely on for guidance. They offer comfort, encouragement, and help us navigate life's challenges together along with these other benefits:
Acts as a buffer against adversity
Leads to increased academic performance
Helps children maintain positive relationships
Makes children less likely to participate in risky behaviours
Increase one’s resilience
Provides children with a sense of security
Teaches children the value of relationships
How we can surround our children with strong supports
Creating a community of care.
Join parenting groups
Encourage children to join sports or youth groups/clubs
Foster close connections with trusted family and friends
Establish relationships with other parents
Develop relationships with your children’s teachers and coaches
Reach out to local organizations and get involved
“Children are great imitators, so give them something great to imitate.”
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SOURCES:
Health Services Executive A Guide to Circles of Support
